Dear Vanessa,
I have always liked the look of wearing all black when I go out, such as a nice black button-up and slacks. This helps me look sharp and sleek. However, recently (correct me if I’m wrong), I see that men who go out wearing flashy, colorful, or vibrant outfits, seem to catch the ladies' attention more. Here's my dilemma: I just don't look good wearing bright colors and feel uncomfortable wearing them. I would like to know if there is a style that would accommodate both looking sharp and standing out.
-Mike, San Diego
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Dear Mike,
Different women are attracted to a variety of men. Some women like tattooed men with jewelry, some women prefer the feminine gentleman in Gucci shoes. Others adore the guy in a T-shirt and jeans. My advice for how to dress for a night on the town depends on the type of woman you want to attract. For now, I will give you some general, yet sound, advice.
The Johnny Cash look can be quite sharp and dashing, but in a club it can make you look like an employee of the bar or can come off as a little too “dark cowboy” for a fine lady’s taste. This doesn’t mean you have to wear pastels or communist red. In fact, don’t. You want to be noticed without being flashy.
Try wearing some dark jeans with a casual button front (not to be tucked) in blue or gray. Top that off with some dressy sneakers or stylish loafers. Or you can pair some black slacks with a royal blue shirt tucked in. Pick rich hues, not bright ones, and always choose shirts with a nice texture to it. Avoid obvious stripes, cheap fabrics, shirts that are too long, anything shiny or bedazzled, and bold floral patterns. Begin with colors and subtle prints you feel comfortable with before branching out. One final piece of advice: Never get dressed with the attitude that you want to impress the ladies. Women will smell the desperation on you.
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